But the one that has stood the test of time the longest is the discriminatory focus on the act of sodomy. It’s a human thing – if we let it be.Īround the world, gay men, bisexual men, and men who have sex with one another but don’t identify with either category, face down so many stigma for so many reasons. So it turns out that exploring the most private of private parts with your tongue, or getting pleasure from it, isn’t necessarily a gay thing. For straight men, while we do not have data to show if they had performed or received analingus during their last sexual encounter, we do know that according to a study published in 2010 by the Journal of Sex Research, over 51% of men have engaged in “in oral-anal sex, manual-anal sex, or anal sex toy use”.
About 26.1% of those men had received and 25.4% had given in their most recent sexual encounter. Well, a 2011 study with a sample size of 25,000 gay men living in America found that gay men do like their analingus – just not as much as you might expect. A lot of people feel uncomfortable with anal sex. Most commonly, we say that anal play is gay. “Butt stuff is such a thing,” we say, as New York magazine’s Maureen O’Connor did earlier this year, before immediately getting grossed out at a phrase more lurid than that. It’s a shame that starts when we’re in diapers.” According to Glickman,who identifies as bisexual, even as adults, “We look for a reason to justify the taboo. unless they’re used in the same breath as a homophobic slur.Īs Charlie Glickman, a sex educator and the author of The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure: Erotic Exploration of Men and their Partners, explained in an interview last year with Playboy: “We carry a lot of shame around our anuses. And rim jobs – or, to the unfamiliar, the act of having your anus stimulated orally – came in at 14%, which is quite surprising because straight men and their own behinds are rarely talked about in the same breath. In 2012, one-year before what is called a “watershed moment” for LGBTQ folks in America by many due a burst in progress, Esquire magazine asked 500 men another question: “During foreplay, what’s the one thing that you want more of from your current partner?” Blowjobs, apparently on the wane, were mentioned by 46% of the men surveyed “a little rough play” sat at 6%. He’s also not AS sexually repulsed as he used to be.Would you be into playing with my ass later )?Īnd I looked at her, and asked, rather shocked: “Wait – do straight men ask women to do this?” He’s always looking for new things to do cuz he’s just a very eager boy. He’s an artist, aka, he plays guitar and sings, sometimes he draws.
He’s a little less of a brooding boy, and a bit more of an intense lad with a bunch of energy that scowls a little too much without knowing. Sometimes he skips leg day though cuz ... all that big meat in them thighs and ass >w> Arms are where it’s at. Rhodri tries to be a soft boy but... sometimes it just don’t work out. He’s exciteable, but very quick to anger. If anyone compliments his muscles, he’s more likely to open up and chat about his routine. He’s able to block/mute people he dislikes so it helps him a bit. He has an Onlyfans account where he does post some nudes and promotes his song covers, enjoying that attention due to the fact that he can choose what he wants people to see. In all this though, getting attention that he can at least have control over helps him feel validated. He’s trying to work through it as best as he can but gets very frustrated cuz he’s ‘not over it yet’ which... isn’t easy in any regard. He dislikes the attention and has dealt with harassment/abuse when he was much younger that’s warped a lot of his perception of himself and others. Apart of his love/hate relationship with his body, the fact that he has a large ass and thunder thighs brings a lot of unwanted looks. He likes the idea of being as buff as possible so people don’t mistake him for being some dainty twink that can’t hold his own. A slight tweak to my strongest big butt boy, Rhodri >:3 All done during the month of March for Patreon!